Just for the sole purpose of putting it out there, “homeboy” from last week added me on facebook on tuesday. But I wanted to make him pay…so I waited a WHOLE day to add him; yeah i know, HEARTBREAKER.
I’ve always wondered and I’m still curious to know what is it that makes two people decide that they like each other and they want to start a relationship. Is it this indescribable energy that flows as soon as you’re with that person, or this longing to be with anyone that you pick the one guy that seems to be interested in you? People always say that when the time comes, you’ll know who that one person is. But…relationships aren’t the same for everyone. Some people want to feel that burning passionate love, and others want to be held at night; some both. How do you distinguish one from the other? When the time does come, how do you know you wanna be with that person not because you wanna be held, but because you feel that energy, that connection? Do you feel it as soon as you meet this person, or does it gradually grow?
Fairytales and the media have taken charge on this issue. Disney movies have portrayed this certain image on how love really is (and Nicholas Sparks). Is it really love at first sight? High school sweethearts that get married after high school and have the two kids, dog and white picket fence? Or that fateful moment that you bump into that person, your eyes meet and you suddenly realize thats the person you wanna spend the rest of your life with?
When a boy comes along, how do you know you’re making the right choice?
